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Title: Croatian Men
Post by: R.R. on December 08, 2004, 03:19:01 am
I am from Canada and I am seeing someone who was born in Croatian.  However, I am curious what a typical Croatian Man expects.  Are Croatian men very controling, do they flirt with many women?  Do they drink heavily?  He says he is a typical Croatian Man but what does this mean?
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Otso on December 08, 2004, 06:53:48 am
:D  Your typical Croatian Man is strong willed, not overly flirty, likes to celebrate, and loves to eat.  Your in Good Hands
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: R.R. on December 11, 2004, 02:31:31 am
Otso, I have to laugh because you just said everything I questioned about Croatian men in a positive way - which I didn't think was possible!  So congratulations for being able to do that!  I would love to hear from some Croatian women and their views!

P.S. Otso, I can only assume you are a typical Croatian Male! :)  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Otso on December 14, 2004, 06:55:56 am
:lol:
   You assume correctly.  Just as I assume all your ex canadian boyfriends all wore cut-off jean shorts ;)   You'll be fine with this young buck.

                                                      Enjoy your trip
                                                             Otso
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: R.R. on December 15, 2004, 01:01:19 am
:D
Otso, WHAT???? You think all Canadian men, and perhaps woman, wear cut off jean shorts?  I don't think I would date a gentleman who wore cut off jean shorts!  Tell me what you think typical Canadian Man and Woman would look like?  
I think typical Canadian's, and please tell me if I am wrong, are cautious, nice, helpful, and of course cute!

 :lol:  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Otso on December 21, 2004, 09:31:25 pm
;)
    You me aside from the mullets and the Canadian Tuxedos (all denim outfits) I am sure they are good looking guys.   :P
 I'm just joshing, I have a few cousins from Croatia, who live outside Toronto.  So we give them a hard time for being our " funny neighbors to the North".   But Cautious, what does that mean?   :ph34r:
                                                       Otso
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: RR on December 27, 2004, 05:28:58 am
:o
Otso, my friend wears denim - has he been Canadianized too much - Do Croatian men NEVER wear denim?  I must say watching him celebrate Christmas has been interesting - YES Croatian MEN love to celebrate you were right about that one!  Cautious means careful!  Which is why I wanted to know about Croatian men - I want to be very careful as to whom I am getting invovled with! :)   Merry Christmas Otso and everyone else in Dubrovnik!!
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Thera on January 14, 2005, 01:32:40 am
I didn't encounter very man young Croatian men.  The older men were very respectful and nice.  I found their interest to be rather fatherly.  It seemed the younger men were more interested in friendships with each other.  I have a feeling, though, when a Croatian man picks a woman she is rather lucky to have him.
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Guest on June 05, 2005, 10:04:24 pm
i know one craotian...CRAZy..the best guy ever...funny, caring, strong  minded, loves to eat, loves his family....
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: a croatian women on June 06, 2005, 12:54:07 pm
croatian men are too traditional, especially in dalmatia, they like things are served to them, first by their mothers (food, clean clothes etc), by both their parents (house, car etc), and by their wifes (food, clean clothes, sex and fun)
their best times is, how original, with their male friends out on bier watching football
so, i married a foreigner
good luck to you, R.R.
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: I=d rather prefer a CONTROLING m on June 07, 2005, 09:36:50 pm
AND, I'd love to serve and do anything for him! I guess the man does his part as well by loving and caring his wife and show respect to her - some men do not know HOW to treat a woman - they treat her like she is his pet.... that type of man I wouldn't even concider to lay my eyes on....you go figure  :angry:  :D  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: To R.R. on July 24, 2005, 06:20:46 am
I agree with Otso. As a woman I would like to add that Croatian men are loyal, loving, fun, and hard-working. They certainly know how to treat their wives. Oh and most are very very good looking... and tall!!! Mine is :)

Oh, I just saw what "Croatian woman" wrote. Whatever, like foreign men are any better as far as sports are concerned. As far as being served first..., I disagree. Firstly, whats wrong with tradition? Secondly, if you dont treat him like master he wont have expectations at the dinner table. Yes, this is what its like in traditional families, but thats because men come home from work and non-employed wife has the food ready. Whats wrong with putting it on the table? Whats wrong with the father of the household being the first to serve himself?

I like cooking for my man and serving him his food, and let me tell you - hes appreciative. Who cleans my car? helps me vacuum? does the dishes? He does. Who makes me breakfast every saturday morning? He does :)
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Tina on November 17, 2005, 02:32:50 am
Ok - so I need a little direction. I have met a Croatian man - who came to the US 6 years ago. I am totally US - born in Chicago, raised in Fl. I am trying to find out what the typical Croatian guy is like (between the age of 22-26). He seems very nice, but everything I read points towrds these men being very controlling with woman. He doesn't seem that way - but I have no idea what differences there are in our cultures. I don't want to offend him - or misinterpret anything he may do or say and vice versa. Any guidance you can give me is very appreciated. I just got out of a very long - controlling relationship with a very jealous boyfriend and I don't want to end up in the same relationship again.  :unsure:  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Guest on November 22, 2005, 02:28:51 am
Tina, they are not controlling, they are traditional. And this also matters where is he from in Croatia. Guys from cities like Zagreb or Split are pretty liberal, also non-Catholics or non-practicing Caths tend to be less traditional/conservative. Guys from villages or towns - theyre traditional. They want to take care of their wives, maybe in America this means controlling..? Oh, Im Croatian, but born and raised in U.S. I just don't understand why you would think Croatian men are controlling. They are traditional because they believe marriage is a mutual relationship that lasts forever. Divorces are very few, except with city folk (see above). Family life is very important, when they have get married and have kids their lives revolve around that. They respect their parents and grandparents. They like to drink their homemade vino with meals and eat good food. These are families that wait for everyone to sit at the table for every meal and actually talk to each other, no tv on during meals. About the jealousy thing, they are very trustworthy and trusting - goes back to the tradition/family thing. In America you assume someone is cheating on you, in Croatia you assume someone isn't cheating on you. The very idea is rather shocking to a traditional man. Think about it, shouldnt it be that way?
I think what "croatian woman" wrote is very funny because she just described every bachelor in america. Believe me hon, its worse in the U.S. Their mothers continue to cook and clean for them even when they move out. Also, American married men still go out and drink with their buddies. Yep, when the kids are born that continues. Whats up with that? Guys here think its fun to go to strip clubs... what?  In America, before guys get married their friends throw them a party and hire strippers... this is right before hes getting MARRIED! In Croatia, the guys just get together and drink and go out a bit, ummm.... no naked women are involved. The guy is getting married for cryin out loud! So, for these and other reasons, I am marrying a croatian man from a town. I look forward to a long life with lots of kids (sorry, croatian woman, I think there is nothing wrong with serving my husband sex and fun, as long as he serves it right back). Thera is right, I am one very lucky woman :)
 
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: night on November 30, 2005, 12:42:08 pm
I just found this thread although it is rather old... very interesting  :)  I wondered about that too...
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: m on December 05, 2005, 12:22:35 pm
:lol:

what do you expect to hear?that YOU picket the best man on earth????

decide for yousrelf .No men are alike Croatian or any other .Cant judge book by ots cover,typical Croatian is HOT,TALL,CARING,LOVING ,SEXY GOOD IN BEN AND so on and he is alsoCONTOLING,IDIOT,ASSHOLE ,DRUNK and so on,cant put them in one category all men are differnt give a poor guy a chance if yyou not sure about something ask him dont loose sleep over it and ask other people on a chatboard ask HIM you men and he will tell you but if he finds out you doubt him he may leave you .HANDLE WITH CARE...

yes my men is Croatian background too and he is BEST,HOT ,LOVING,CARING,SEXY,GREAT LOVER AND SO ON AND GREAT DAD TOO.we have been together for 10 yrs,married 6 and have 2 kids.LIFE COULDNT BE BETTER...

take care and dont do anything stupid you might regret in the future.......

take care

M
 
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Viana on December 12, 2005, 01:19:31 pm
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:lol:

what do you expect to hear?that YOU picket the best man on earth????

decide for yousrelf .No men are alike Croatian or any other .Cant judge book by ots cover,typical Croatian is HOT,TALL,CARING,LOVING ,SEXY GOOD IN BEN AND so on and he is alsoCONTOLING,IDIOT,ASSHOLE ,DRUNK and so on,cant put them in one category all men are differnt give a poor guy a chance if yyou not sure about something ask him dont loose sleep over it and ask other people on a chatboard ask HIM you men and he will tell you but if he finds out you doubt him he may leave you .HANDLE WITH CARE...

yes my men is Croatian background too and he is BEST,HOT ,LOVING,CARING,SEXY,GREAT LOVER AND SO ON AND GREAT DAD TOO.we have been together for 10 yrs,married 6 and have 2 kids.LIFE COULDNT BE BETTER...

take care and dont do anything stupid you might regret in the future.......

take care

M
I think that what EVERY woman (in a healthy relationship) can say about a man IS that they married the BEST man in the world...

Would YOU as a married woman lay your eyes on a man you were NOT married to?

 
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: m on December 16, 2005, 11:37:22 am
what do you mean Viana?

We all look but how far we go its up to individual.I do have a look when I see a HOT guy and even when my hubby is with me and I will make a comment "hes hot" or whatever when I see a HOT guy.But that doesnt mean I will have an affair or anything like that as Im VERY HAPPY with my men.

have yoy got a men?Is he CRo?

m :P  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: SB on January 02, 2006, 11:56:17 pm
I have been seeing an extremely tall, dark and handsome Croatian man for the last 4 months. I agree that there is a risk of seeing his behaviour as controlling, but I suspect it is more to with his traditional values.

He is funny, kind, respectful, hardworking, a great cook, organised, clean and tidy, thoughtful, generous and sensitive combined with a  great willingness to please. He is also wonderful in the bedroom dept. and deeply affectionate in private and in public, but not in a slippery way.

The negative side is he loves women, and even though I don't ever see his eyes wonder, he has been caught flirting with my friends a number of times. So this can be unsettling and can make me feel very insecure.  He drinks and smokes a lot, can be moody and at times very introspective which makes it hard to communicate. He finds it hard to express how he feels, which of course creates issues for me. As a foreigner working in a country where there is a language barrier, he can be defensive and slightly paranoid.  :)

All the same I find his tender and kind ways totally fufilling and hope that he will be around me for some time to come.
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Odessa on February 03, 2006, 03:27:22 am
:blink: Sounds like a train wreck to me. He refuses to talk about his feelings and he flirts with your friends? It sounds to me like someone who is a potential verbal and emmotional abuser!
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: lola on February 10, 2006, 12:33:13 pm
I am with with an australian born croatian,I never be that happy!!!hope my relationship with him will last,as I never found a man so masculine,gentle,sexy and with respect and values.and btw,he always told me croatian women were too snoby and crazy...anyway I am really into my career,was raised in paris,had a very modern life,wear sexy clothes,had boyfriends before him and yes he can be a bit old school and demanding but i think it s great.wish luck and happiness to every other women like me,hehe! :)  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Lilly_Blue on March 12, 2006, 05:04:07 pm
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and btw,he always told me croatian women were too snoby and crazy...
....don't you just looooooove a woman that needs to put other women down just to feel good about herself.... <_<

anyways good luck to you and your future (ex)husband, who'll probably end up cursing you and crying on the shoulder of one of those snoby, crazy women as i've seen it happen so many times before....... :rolleyes:  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: amanada on March 13, 2006, 11:56:35 pm
look just beacause she is happy dosent mean you have to be all bitter about it. maybe youre love life sucks dont bitch at her for having a guy
good luck finding some one cause it sounds like you need to get laid
xoxoxox take care
amanada :D  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Lilly_Blue on March 15, 2006, 03:04:21 pm
:lol:  :lol:

oh sweety im not being bitter, i was just trying to remind her (in the nicest way possible) that she's being a bigot

a vulgar remark deserves a vulgar response

as my lovelife is concerned, you needn't worry not everything in life is an expression of a latent sexual tension, besides i have my very own Croatian man that keeps me warm at night  ;)
 
well what i was trying to say is, that as a Croatian woman i have every right to feel offended. Not just because she choose to offend me, with a choice of words wich were not only vulgar but also a pathetic expression of her own personal insecurities, she also happened to offend her BF's  mother and every female relative he has. Atlast if we include every Croatian female, we might have a little international debacle on our hands wouldn't we? Wouldn't you then agree that our lovely lola might be a bit rasistic and ignorant?

but as the Romans say: ignorantia facti non nocet, and therefore it is the offendent's duty to state that he/she is being offended, and so i did ( in the nicest way possible, as the situation requiered) just before i was accused of being frigid or in a "dry period"

i know i know i overdid it a litle bit, but generalisations make my skin crawl..... and i do believe that if you take your time you might find that i have a point there.... afterall i always believed one must defend everything that is sacred to them and so my country and the dignity of every man and woman living there are sacred to me.... so you fill the blanks sweety, not everything is a result of a latent sexual tension ;)

i nemoj zamjerit ;)  
Title: Croatian Men
Post by: Guest on March 16, 2006, 03:28:09 pm
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:lol:  :lol:

oh sweety im not being bitter, i was just trying to remind her (in the nicest way possible) that she's being a bigot

a vulgar remark deserves a vulgar response

as my lovelife is concerned, you needn't worry not everything in life is an expression of a latent sexual tension, besides i have my very own Croatian man that keeps me warm at night  ;)
 
well what i was trying to say is, that as a Croatian woman i have every right to feel offended. Not just because she choose to offend me, with a choice of words wich were not only vulgar but also a pathetic expression of her own personal insecurities, she also happened to offend her BF's  mother and every female relative he has. Atlast if we include every Croatian female, we might have a little international debacle on our hands wouldn't we? Wouldn't you then agree that our lovely lola might be a bit rasistic and ignorant?

but as the Romans say: ignorantia facti non nocet, and therefore it is the offendent's duty to state that he/she is being offended, and so i did ( in the nicest way possible, as the situation requiered) just before i was accused of being frigid or in a "dry period"

i know i know i overdid it a litle bit, but generalisations make my skin crawl..... and i do believe that if you take your time you might find that i have a point there.... afterall i always believed one must defend everything that is sacred to them and so my country and the dignity of every man and woman living there are sacred to me.... so you fill the blanks sweety, not everything is a result of a latent sexual tension ;)

i nemoj zamjerit ;)
AGREED!!!
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: Maja on September 16, 2006, 03:10:05 am
I definitely agree with Lily_Blue. Not every Croatian woman, like myself, is snobby or crazy. Everyone has a different personality, and you’re basically judging every Croatian woman; rather than some who really do obtain those characteristics.

was raised in paris,had a very modern life,wear sexy clothes,had boyfriends before him   

Oh, and please get over yourself. With the way you just described yourself, you sound more conceited and more of a snob, than any of those “Croatian Women”.

If you’re looking to find out how Croatian Men really are? You’ll never really know because every guy is different, yeah they might share some of the same characteristics, but every guy is different. It all depends what they’ve been through in life and the outcome of it all.

Wish you the greatest happiness with your Croatian Man.  ;D
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: branko bandic on November 15, 2006, 03:48:45 pm
Goodbye- I am Croatian man. I like to think myself caring and do not control- unless my wife she disagreement and make me the shout! My mother Babushka she say that i am a man and she is a woman so long we make the remember of it then no blood be boiled! I in the art so I have been told I am sensitive, I am magician and my wife Branka is my assistant, we work well with me in charge!
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: Chrissy on October 28, 2008, 09:47:03 pm
What I like about Croatian men ,is that unlike most  Western guys ( especially anglo saxons- Cannucks, Americans ,Aussies, Kiwis and all that type of shit) they are very warm, caring ,personal and gentleman.My man never allowed me to pay for a single thing when we go out, dinner, theatre, taxi,etc ,unlike my friends's American and Canadian boyfriends who makes them  split even a Mc Donalds's bill(!)
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: mpav on December 24, 2008, 05:21:06 pm
The thing with Croat men is that they are traditional, and that has some pros/cons:

- they are respectful of women, so they rarely talk 'trash' about women like North American men do. They don't think of it as conquests, and think more like a family man. When I came to Canada I was shocked at the locker room talk....would never even consider taking part

- they appreciate woman and family, the challenge is that family is most important so they will put priority over that and may let the romance stuff slide

- they can appear cold at first, but with the close group are very different, they can drink a little too much....and then boys can be boys...

-
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: mafitz on February 12, 2009, 10:26:11 am
I hope those who are with their husbands and boyfriends are still happy and together with them.  I am only replying cause I found some other replies from a few months ago.  

I think maybe we get traditional and controlling confused.  My husband is traditional, and not controling.  He is American, and we have been together for almost 14 years.  We have 5 kids all girls!  I think traditional men make far better husbands, because they are reliable, secure, care enough about their kids to spend more time with them than their friends.  Controlling men will do things to make you feel like you are incapable of doing anything, and so much of a waste that no other man could ever want you.  They will constantly disagree with your views, but instead of disagreeing with you, they will always tell you you are wrong, they will subtly put you down, ie: "you look nice, its not the kind of thing I would have you wear" "your breasts aren't what I like but they are good enough" they will interact with you in a way that will make you feel like a child, or brainless, or incompetent.  This is a man that is controlling.  And with this man, you will never be good enough, because he is insecure and knows you are the only woman around fool enough to put up with his garbage and not knock his teeth out the back of his head.

Traditional men come home after work, they are the primary bread winners, they like having someone take care of them, put dinner on the table, breakfast in their bellies etc..  They fix things that are broken in the house, they know how to change tires, and will change your tire rather than have you do it because its YOUR car.  They will pump the gas.  They will open your doors, pay for your dates and not require sex as payment for them paying for your dates.  They will be nice to your parents and siblings.  They will not throw a tantrum if you want to take care of your parents or his, because that is what you are supposed to do.  They will mow the lawn, still watch sports or pursue their hobbies, but never put those hobbies before their kids.  They will not sit at home while you work three jobs to make ends meet and expect you to cook the meals, do all the child rearing, and housework.  Traditional men are partners that never leave you feeling like anything but a woman and he is nothing less than a real man.  You are never a washed up housewife, never a cow with udders (I breastfed all of my kids), a workhorse.  You are always a woman.  Sex is only as good as the couple make it, you have to be compatible for good sex.

Traditional men in the anglo countries are rare to find.  I know this, been there done that.  So if you want a traditional man, and you have a better chance of finding him in Croatia, then go for it, and get yourself one.  I strongly recommend this breed of man.  They are the best.  They are the ones who will fight to protect you if someone comes into your home and tries to assault you, they do not whine at all, and somewhere down the line, they learned what being a man is, and are very secure in the fact that they are one.  So they have nothing to prove.  No short man syndrome, fat man syndrome and all that baggage.

I think that Croatian women are clearly damn good or they wouldn't have managed to raise such a large portion of good men.  And this is good, because I have four more daughters.  I will send them your way when they have finished college. ;)  

Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: maki2008 on March 21, 2009, 02:11:37 am
 ::)  I really like this post!  I started seeing a man from Croatia about a month ago.  He is sweet, a little distanced, but coming closer all the time.  I want to know what the customs and traditions are in Croatia.   I don't want to offend him in a way that would make him want to walk away from this relationship we are building.  Right now we are friends, close friends.  I would definitely want to go farther.  Everything I know about him thus far is completely enticing and wonderful!  I have seen pictures of his home town.  I have even started to try to learn his language so the language barrier is not great!  I am doing that on my own.  Oh, and he is tall, handsome, has a large appetite, and speaks of his family at home with great admiration.  I have several friends from the Balkans area here where I am, and the appetite thing must be something!  They all eat like horses and most of them are tall!   :o  If there is any other advice to help me along, please let me know!  I want to learn all about him and his country!

Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: princess on March 30, 2009, 09:10:07 pm
Haha, I see a lot of people are putting the Croatian men on a throne...

Ok, they can be loyal and they are family people - but seriously.... at least in dalmatia - they have their wife, and then they look for a girlfriend... on the search for one, they do not hesitate to try several out....

Mind you, I also have one special croatian in my life - or whatever, but fact is, he is married, and he still wants to spend time with me when he can.... And I know he cheats on his wife on a regular basis - as well as several other males I know down there.

My uncle including - he was never faithful to my wife, and he took the tradition a bit too far sometimes.

Meat is a key word - and sex.

Like my ex said, I need meat, and he also said "I am a man, I have needs".... So I said, ok, bye.... But anyway, they stick to your heart and your brain no matter how they are with other women... at least in the end, he respects me and never tried to brag of anything to his friends. And now, even after 12 years without sex, he still comes to me when I am there...
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: princess on March 30, 2009, 09:12:07 pm
ehm, to his wife of course, my aunt i ment
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: CelticDragon on June 05, 2009, 03:44:06 am
Thank you so much for your posting!  I just started spam detected a Croatian man (raised there and emegrated) a month ago and think (from the time I saw him) that he was phenomenal.  Being American born I feel a bit insecure because of American men.  I know European men are so different from American men.  I WANT the traditional relationship.  I think "women's lib" sucks and screwed up relationships ... Woman Appreciation is much better and it seems that Croatian men already knew that.  I am a strong woman (never married - long relationships {6+ years} with American men - do everything myself - including the physical labor to get something done around the house. 

He is the most handsome man that I have met in my life, he is 6'4 and I am 5'8 and love to wear heels (makes me almost 6') and feel comfortable about my height. 

I am not a controlling/bitching  woman, I go with the flow (I let my man do what he wants) and I guess I need to know if I need to be more "agressive" with this man.  Do Croatian men like / need that? I am tainted by American men.  They do not like a women that takes the initiative (whether on the phone or in bed).

Silly question .... I know that food and friends are extremely important, but does it matter what the food is? Or is it just the fact that food is offered?

Please help.  I do not want to lose this man.

Hvala to all that answer!
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: CRO-man on June 30, 2009, 11:44:05 pm
Haha, I see a lot of people are putting the Croatian men on a throne...

Ok, they can be loyal and they are family people - but seriously.... at least in dalmatia - they have their wife, and then they look for a girlfriend... on the search for one, they do not hesitate to try several out....

Mind you, I also have one special croatian in my life - or whatever, but fact is, he is married, and he still wants to spend time with me when he can.... And I know he cheats on his wife on a regular basis - as well as several other males I know down there.

My uncle including - he was never faithful to my wife, and he took the tradition a bit too far sometimes.

Meat is a key word - and sex.

Like my ex said, I need meat, and he also said "I am a man, I have needs".... So I said, ok, bye.... But anyway, they stick to your heart and your brain no matter how they are with other women... at least in the end, he respects me and never tried to brag of anything to his friends. And now, even after 12 years without sex, he still comes to me when I am there...

wow i guess the guy just don't like
stop being so frustrated and get yourself a better man

it has nothing to with him, it has to do with you

being a man, i could never respect a woman that has an a afair with me if i have a wife (but being honest i would also never cheat on my wife, looking is okay, or sometimes a fler, but i never take it a step forward)

have a nice time girls, you won't be wrong with croatian men

and ye, for celtic dragin, in bed be a tiger, in a relationship be a kitten ;)
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: ande1533 on August 04, 2009, 03:49:54 am
I just met a Croatian man on cruise line last week. I am already totally smitten! And if he is like I think he is (and not fooled, which I usually am), and more importantly if he like the men you ALL describe on this forum....I hope I hope I hope he comes after me!!!
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: Zama on October 03, 2009, 07:28:37 pm
Hi, I've just met a seemingly great guy. Is race an isuue with Croatians?  
Title: Re: Croatian Men
Post by: Matea1402 on May 13, 2012, 06:58:39 pm
"... Croatian women were too snoby and crazy..."

:lol:
okay, I am Croatian woman, and must say that is really rude from you... I admit it, sometimes there are days, but who isn't? anyways, yes, croatian boys/men are sometimes hard to handle, but if you really want it to work, then take the charge, damn it! for what I can say, the best croatian boys/mens are from east and south-east of Croatia... they respect women, and family, are funny, friendly, communicative, but sometimes just unbelievable (in negative) !! sometimes I just want to  kick their asses to the other side of the planet. but, we all (all croatians) have probably the best work ethics ethics on this side of Europe.
Title: Croatian Man asked me to be his wife
Post by: Raven2113 on September 13, 2012, 02:38:41 pm
he said be my wife  .. . . I will take care of you and your kids like they were my own  . . .but I think he has another girlfriend  ..  . what do I do???

any insights would be helpful  . . .